All you need is to know what you want, and to want it badly enough so that it will stay in your thoughts. – Wallace Wattles
Your thoughts create your emotions.
Your emotions create your actions.
Your actions create your life.
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Whatever it is you have been thinking about is your life.
If you don’t have what you want, change your thoughts.
Get clear about what you do want and think about that.
Everything will change when you do that consistently.
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