A Good Kind of Independence

As a solid rock cannot be moved by the wind, the wise are not shaken by praise or blame. – Buddha

I heard Wayne Dyer say one measure of a healthy Ego is to be independent of the good and bad opinion of others.

I have to agree with Wayne and the Buddha.

What do you think?

Similar Posts

  • Beyond Command-and-Control

    I’ve included a blog post from Seth Godin (in its entirety, at the bottom) to get you thinking. Please read Seth’s words below and rejoin me for a couple questions. *  *  * You’re back? Great! If you invoke the Platinum Rule (treat others as they would like to be treated… ), which approach (or…

  • Learn To Say No

    Don’t do what you sincerely don’t want to do. – Ernest Hemingway The trick to saying “No.” when you should and “Yes.” when you should is clarity. Clarity about who and what you are (and that you do not derive your worth from the opinions of others). Clarity about your values (and that focusing on…

  • Behavior Always Wins

    You can tell me what you want, what you dream about, what your “Ideal Life” would be, what you want to start or stop, . . . , but all that matters is what you do. At the end of the day: behavior always wins. All that – really – matters is action. Of course, emotions beget…

  • Action Creates Luck

    “I am a great believer in luck, and I find that the harder I work, the more I have of it.” – Thomas Jefferson The truth in TJ’s words is something I was blind to for some time, and I resisted it after that (still do, but less… ): it is only when we get…