In life, the opposite of creation is not destruction, it’s victim-hood.
“Huh?” (you may say).
In life, we can choose to be responsible for our lives and create through our choices, or play the victim and allow life to wash over us all the while lamenting the unfairness of things and wallowing in passivity.
Put another way, we can either create our lives and be creators, or we can be subject to circumstances and be victims.
Choose wisely.
I subscribe to a couple different “coach/guru” newsletters and dutifully read each one that appears in my Inbox. They are always interesting and/or useful (or I would soon un-subscribe), and occasionally one will offer an idea that I blog on. Today’s post is the entirety of an e-mail that I received from Michael Neill – it…
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