The One Thing You CAN’T Have

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude. – Thomas Jefferson

I’ve blogged on this one before, but it bears repeating.

To achieve a good attitude is necessary, but not sufficient.

The wrong attitude however, will negate everything else.

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