What Do You Look For?

What we see depends mainly on what we look for. – John Lubbock

There’s so much “out there,” but what you see is depends on what you look for.

It also depends on what you’re willing to see.

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What do you look for?

What are you willing to see?

The answer to those questions is what you think is “out there.”

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