How Happiness Changes

As we get older, we tend to be more focused on protecting what we have, as opposed to seeking what we want.

Click here for an interesting article from positive psychology researcher and thought leader Heidi Grant Halvorson.

Have you noticed this in your life?

If so, are you playing smaller than you might?

Are you avoiding reasonable risks?

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