The Power of Your W.O.B.

ByMatthew

Huh?

What’s a W.O.B. you may ask?

It’s something that I’ve been thinking about a lot lately.

W.O.B. stands for Way of Being (WOB).

It’s a catch-all term for how you think, feel and act.

And it’s so vitally important.

I’ll be writing more about this in the future, but I wanted to share something in particular: your WOB is a system of inputs and output.

And it’s “perfect.”

Perfect in the sense that what you put in determines what you get out.

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I love helping clients understand the three critical “awarenesses” of life: 1) what you (deeply, truly, authentically) want, 2) what you’re doing to keep it out of your life and 3) what you need to do instead.

It’s a process of really, truly understanding what you want, the things do (often unconsciously/habitually) that preclude that ever entering your life and what you must do differently.

Is there anything you (think) you want, that isn’t in your life?

It’s because of your WOB.

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