I was reading something from Michael Neill (his e-mail newsletter, if you’re curious) and he said something useful:
fear is a function of the mind, not circumstance.
So if fear is (just a) thought, and not anything real or tangible, then I can think differently.
And not be afraid as much, or even anymore.
I think I’ll try that more.
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